I have been looking for a Christian man for many years. I wanted sometime to give up, but I always remember the Lord saying : “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” He said He will meet all our needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus (Phil4:19); and He has done a lot for me.
I strongly believe that God has this Christian, handsome and intellectual man that I’m dreaming for. I know it is not His plan for me to be alone. He said in Gen. 2 : “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” I’m the helper for someone I haven’t met yet. I always remember God’s plan for me : “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future“ (Jeremiah 29:11).
I ask the Lord every day to build this Christian family for me. I want to be this helper, this Christian wife he described in Ephesian 5: “Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. “
I want to have a God fearing, lovely and caring man He described in Ephesian 5: Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[b] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
I’m a Christian black woman. I’m a hardworking person and I thank God for all He has done in my life ( my salvation, health, degrees , work, etc...). He has always been there when I needed him.